I read The Star newspaper yesterday night(because I simply can’t find time to do anything else besides working) and caught an article that caused me to mutter blasphemy. This is the particular article that was responsible for Cleffairy’s creatively uttered vulgarities. Thank god my family were not around to hear me cursing. Blasphemy and vulgarities is actually a no no in my parent’s house. LOL.
The article below was taken from The Star Malaysia, 7th August 2008, Wednesday,
KUALA LUMPUR: Her marriage seemed perfect but it turned into a nightmare when Salwanis Ma’az’s foreigner husband left the country with their three-month-old baby.
The 31-year-old research officer said her Pakistani husband Nasir Mahmood Qadri Nisar Ahmed, 39, took their son Muhammad Bilal to a family gathering on July 26.
â€œHe refused to take me along, saying that it was a private gathering,â€ said Salwanis, who later went to search for him at the KL International Airport (KLIA).
She said the police at KLIA alerted the Immigration Department, which subsequently traced him to Dubai.
â€œThey told me he boarded a flight to Dubai at 11.14am the same day,â€ Salwanis told reporters at a press conference organised by Putera Umno here yesterday.
He called her the next day to tell her he would be going to Johannesburg, South Africa.
â€œI didn’t expect this at all, as he was a religious man who lived according to the Sunnah. He has always treated me well. However, I have never met his family except for a female cousin,â€ said Salwanis.
The couple met on the Internet and married here last year after a whirlwind courtship.
She said her husband had an import-export business in sports goods and they later opened a supermarket in Serdang Jaya.
â€œNow that he’s gone, I have to pay the monthly installments for our car and for the supermarket premises,â€ she said, adding that she lodged a police report on July 28.
â€œParents must do a background check on the future husbands of their daughters , especially if they are foreigners, to avoid cases like this,â€ said Putera chairman Datuk Abdul Azeez, adding that the movement would help Salwanis find her son.
There’s so many bachelors and single MALAYSIAN men available and yet these foolish women go for those exotic foreigners! Don’t they know that most of these creeps probably marry Malaysian woman for free sex and domestic caregivers? What’s so good about all these foreigners anyway? Their dick is thicker than average Malaysian men? Hello, ladies, it’s not about the size or the shape, it’s how those men uses them! What good is a big dick when they have ‘expiry’ dates?
Don’t give me the ‘love is blind’ thing. Love is never blind unless you turn blind eyes to it. Romance and ‘love’ is sheer bullshit when it comes to these foreigners who probably courted Malaysian women who are idiotic enough to believe their proclamation of love marry them, screw them legally without condoms, make them pregnant and then bagged the women’s money and fly away and never to be heard of again after some time. In this case, the man not only bagged her child away for good, but he also left her with some financial burden.
While my women’s intuition sympathized this particular lady for loosing her son to the creep she have the cheek to call her ‘husband’, I really wished I could tell her how idiotic she was to marry him after a short period of courtship, bears him a son and yet not knowing who the hell is the rest of his family. Just take a look at this particular paragraph:
I didn’t expect this at all, as he was a religious man who lived according to the Sunnah. He has always treated me well. However, I have never met his family except for a female cousin,â€ said Salwanis.The couple met on the Internet and married here last year after a whirlwind courtship.
Oh my god, this is just so…(kindly insert your favourite vulgar word). She did not expect this kind of thing is coming? Please don’t tell me that she never heard of such cases where foreign husbands bangs them and then leave them with all sort of headaches to deal with? The guy is a religious man and live according to sunnah, you say, and you didn’t expect him to do this sort of things to you because he is RELIGIOUS. RELIGIOUS my ass!
The guy probably treats the woman well because she put good food on the table, a roof over his head and passable sex session in his bed. Had it not occurred to the woman that the guy probably marries her for a purpose? If he did not marry her for purpose, why he did not bothered to introduce her to his family except for a ‘female cousin’ who in reality is probably also his wife who cannot bear him a child?
Now, this news really irks me. When will these people ever learn? The answer to my question is probably NEVER. They will never learn and they seems to turn blind eyes to similar previous news like these where a foreigner marries a local for citizenships or PR or even for the sake of convenience during their stay in Malaysia. When these sort of things happened, do these women honestly think that they can easily get back their child? Think again…even if the child is located, there will be a fight between two country’s court. And it’ll be a hell of custody fight because it’ll get two countries involved.
Cleffairy: It’s already going to be 080808, and I wish many couple out there who register their marriage on this date a smooth sailing in their matrimony and may they never encounter such thing like the article above.