On 20th May…

It’s 20th May 2010, and it’s been 8 years since I first saw my husband. I was young. Very young. 8 years ago, I was just 17 going on 18. Barely legal, I must say, and we have come a long way.

Yeah, folks, it’s our 8 years anniversary today. And it’s been a hell of a roller coaster ride. Dangerous, exhilarating, and full of shock and surprises. There are good and bad times, but I’m not going to share all my X-rated details here.

I would spare your innocent eyes and ears. I may write mushy stuff for my novels, but…I’m afraid, I don’t tell my own love story very well. Perhaps, when I’m old and have nothing else to do, I might document that.

Anyway, I like to do meaningful things on meaningful dates. And to commemorate my 8 years anniversary with my husband, I’ve changed the layout to something more light on the eyes. It’s blue and much more calmer that the depressing black that I used earlier. πŸ˜€

This, signify my hope for a peaceful and a happier relationship with my husband. I hope to celebrate life…(not wait for people to celebrate life for me… as in ‘celebrating someone’s life’ in a funeral) and no more nonsense. I’m sick and tired of those. I want to feel alive, while I’m still young. And yes, from this day forward, to hell those people who are not even worth my regard.

Time, and death, is a funny thing, ladies and gentlemen. things that happened last year made me realized that time is not always on our side, and Death may come knocking at our doorstep anytime it pleases him. Life is too short to be wasted. take it from me… chase your dreams and live life to the fullest while you still can. I’ve made it my very own personal mission this year. Living life to the fullest, and living my dreams.

I’m not a fan of fancy designs. No… I hate those. I hurt my eyes and it annoys me to my very core. I’ve always adored those simple designs that does not look messy. I like this one. And I hope, it’s pleasant to your eyes too.

20th May 2010 is also the date that I chose to launch my book in the US, and it’ll be available for sale, finally, after all the midnight oil I burned. No… it’s no coincidence that the book launch shared the same date as my anniversary.LOL…fiery as I may sound sometimes, I suppose, I’m still a romantic at heart, eh? I want my book to have the same anniversary as me and my husband so that 20th May would be much more meaningful from this year forward. πŸ˜€ Another thing for me to celebrate next year. My book anniversary. πŸ˜›

I’m blabbering, aren’t I? Please excuse me. It’s been rather a whirlwind of a day. It was my husband’s birthday yesterday as well, and so here I am…wishing him not only a happy birthday, but happy anniversary as well.

Cleffairy: To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.


    • Cleffairy says:

      OMG… wth are you doing online? Din expect you up at this hour la, sis… you ok anot? So out of character wan? LOL….

      Thank you veli veli much for the good wishes….

      • Pauline Perfectionista says:

        Exactly! Even I myself am amused about being awake at that time. Maxing out the nocturnal-ism whilst I’m still on holiday, haha. By the way, this is like, the first time in my entire life to be the first to comment on one of your posts, hehehe πŸ˜€

        P/S. Love the new layout! *smitten* =)

  1. manglish says:

    ohhhhhhhhh brighter template oredi hahahaah guess things are looking up, congratulations on ur launching, and happy birthday and anniversary to your hubby and both of you πŸ™‚

  2. claire says:


    ok, any delicious dinner in store for us bloggers here or not?? at least tell us how and what u eat and what u do…. *wink*

  3. June says:

    Cleffairy.. Happy Anniversary.. Happy book launch..
    Where can i get a copy?? Name of the title plz??
    Should I be ur 1st blogger customer to buy it?

    LOLz…. Btw.. i like ur new design..sun shines brighter …
    Bless u Cleffairy… ^^

  4. kathy says:

    Pengsan. I thought I went into wrong blog. New template. Blue. I love blue.

    Happy Anniversary!

    And Happy Book Launch. Hope it will shoot to bestseller list πŸ˜€

    • Cleffairy says:

      Haihh… I must be dreaming la, if hit bestseller. Dono how to write til so nice like Paulo or Cecelia Ahern. πŸ™ Can sell one or two consider good liao la.

      LOL… u tot u hop wrong place kah? LOL… nah.. u not yet mabuk. Correct place. LOLOL!

  5. eugene says:

    Blow the candles for you now and wishing you another 8 x 8 years to come for you and your hub…. May the good lord bless this beautiful union, amen?

    take care now dear

  6. Mommy Ling says:

    Happy Anniversary and also Congrats on book launching as well…DOuble joy for you..

    Great you change to this layout…i feel ur depression is lesser now.

  7. jen says:

    happy 8th anniversary to you & your other half! :)))
    yeahh, i seriously loveee this new layout πŸ™‚ good one and way to go!

  8. ericlee says:

    hahaha May 20th…in short 520, many chinese use this as a symbol for “wo ai ni” coz they sound slightly similar…i suppose it is a very good omen for u? LMAO

    • Cleffairy says:

      Eh? Really ah? 520 is Wo Ai Ni? LOL… I din notice it all these years. LOLOL! Thanks for pointing it out. Good omen? I dunno, I dun believe in those… I believe in a relationship, we must constantly work on it to keep it alive. πŸ˜€

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