Am I that young and naive?

I am easily upset. It takes very little to upset me. But fortunately, it takes simple things to make me happy. Yes…I took pleasure in simple things in life and therefore… I get easily distressed by the fact that things gets complicated even when I’m laying low and minding my own business.

Anyway, yesterday, I went out with a friend for dinner, and her 5 years old little girl mistook my husband for my father and my son for being my little brother.

That is not the first time she referred them as my father and my little brother. She’s been referring them that for quite some time now. I was really amused and very pleased… to think that I look young enough to be my husband’s daughter and my son’s elder sister. LOL. Tsk… if only my husband and I have a daughter. Too bad. I’ve always wanted a little girl of my own. But then again, that’s just wishful thinking.

Dreams does not fit into reality very well. I have very little desire to start being a mother all over again. To be honest, I’m kinda enjoying being a mum to an older kid instead of babies and toddler. I do not wish to change anything, and I hope that everyone, including my husband would respect my wishes.

Anyway, I corrected the little girl and told her that they’re not my father and not my little brother. I told her that they’re my husband and son respectively. The little girl may not know this, but she made my day. She made me so happy cuz in her eyes, I look young.

That sweet little girl made me wonder: Do I really look that young? For what it’s worth, Mamarazzi and Paparazzi called me an underage girl before when I donned sporty clothes and a cap. Kids in the kindergarten sometimes mistook me for being an elder sister to my son too. And some of my colleagues and friends often mistook the boy for being my younger brother as well.

Hmmm…curious thought. I suppose I ought to enjoy the case of mistaken identity while it last. šŸ˜€

Cleffairy: It is a misfortune that sometimes reality does not accommodate dreams very well. And it is a misfortune too, that many hides their true colours. In the world of the adult, simple thinking, sincerity, honesty and true love is indeed a rare commodity.


  1. Alv808 says:

    Hahahaa…thats good right you look young!! same goes with me..always being judge ‘you are still very young and bla bla bla’. Sometimes I like it but NOT most of time. They will treat you like little girl and naive…hahaha.

    • Cleffairy says:

      I kena before at cyber cafe… they check my IC, tot budak sekolah ponteng. šŸ™ The police kena I kns kao kao…. I say I wan play game peacefully to lepas geram oso so susah… summore dare to ask which school I went to. Babi hutan. Mak orang liao. No school to go to lah. go kindy pick up anak ada lah! Gua punya suka la wanna play game or wud. Not their problem la… not illegal wud.

  2. cheeyee says:

    LOL! You see, from her eyes, your husband is a father… just not your father…. your son is like a “brother” to her since she only has a brother…. just that he’s not your brother… LOL!

    Btw…. my FF crashed 4 times just want to leave a comment here! Grrrr….. I suppose I’m not welcomed here….. šŸ™

    • Cleffairy says:

      >.< aiyerr... dono wud ur girl is thinking! Made me laugh like hell at her statement. Aiks... u din bathe in the morning kah? That is why kena my blog boycottt? LOL!

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