I noticed these days I could easily recognize what I feel about certain people in my life and put the description into words.
When I’m with my loved ones, I feel:
*Peaceful
*Happy
*Serene
*Liberated
*Loved
*Appreciated
*Beautiful
*Blessed
*Accepted
*Belonged
*Positive
*Cheerful
*Inspired
*Motivated
*Free
*Unafraid
*Encouraged
*Brave
With people who ‘claimed to care’
*Unhappy
*Uncomfortable
*Never good enough
*Not respected
*Used
*Cheated
*Betrayed
*Suffocated
*Annoyed
*Angry
*Can’t be myself
*Can’t express myself positively
*No privacy
*Insecure
*Stress
*Depressed
Basically, my loved ones makes me feel stable and secure while those who ‘claimed to care’ make me feel nothing but negativities and unhappiness that consequently lead to stress and bad temper
🙁
I’ve read in the motivational book, ‘The Secret’ that if you really want to attract everything good in life, you need to surround yourself with positive people… And people who makes you happy and secure and stay far away from those who pulls you down emotionally and mentally.
So I guess…it is time to practice the law of attraction. 🙂 As far as I’m concerned…life is too short to be unhappy. I want to be a better version of myself… A happy and beautiful version of myself instead of a miserable one.
Cleffairy: Toxic people who gives me negative and uncomfortable aura deserves no place in my life.
I feel you and guess what, in many ways and times, I find myself in just the exact position too.. sometimes it is just so hard to practise surrounding yourself with positive people when others are out there draining you like a vampire… hahahah
🙁 you described it right. Vampire. That’s the word have been looking for. Vampire. They suck all the positivity right out of you, and left you with nothing!
so tell me, which category do i fall into?
The makan til pengsan category.
We also need to be loving and not expecting others.
Why should I love people who are so controlling of my life…I should stop giving them power over me and get rid of them asap…
Do they “who claimed to care” know that you feel this way towards them?
Obviously they refused to take the clue
I guess we have similar feelings when it comes to our loved ones. =)
It sounds easier said than done, you know…. surrounding ourselves with positive energy, but it’s worth a try if it means regaining our happiness and life.
I should prolly do the same thing with people who’ve been on my nerve lately….
Yes… we should, cuz as long as we allow it to continue…it will keep go on. 🙁
Hi Cleff
Have not been to your blog for some times. Glad to read many positive words from your posts along the way.
Keep it up and all the best!
Been busy, eh, Ling. Same here. 🙂 Thank you for dropping by. 🙂 All the best to you too.
Hi cleffairy, blogwalking here.
I wish i could be positive and happy always. but so far i have not yet found what is true happiness. Or may be i was too ignorance or just being greedy to look for happiness? I don’t know….