Last longer sexual position for men…

Some men just can’t last long. This is one of the famous complains murmured by women behind men’s back. Women just don’t complain in front of you men because that will definitely hurt your manly ego.

Most men make a boring and unexciting lover because they either don’t bother to make it exciting or don’t know how to make their erection last longer, and therefore, inspiring fake orgasm and whatnot from his female counterpart.

Well, since this article is aimed on men who are famous for their impatience, without further ado, let us proceed to the tips, shall we?

Last-longer position 1: Mission possible

Missionary position. This might not be nominated as “Best Position in the Bedroom” award but this position nonetheless, is the most helpful for men who want to prolong coitus.
Missionary position - Credit: The Player's Guide
Speaking of coitus, you can try practicing coitus interruptus, which entails deliberately withdrawing your slimy little friend from her vagina prior to ejaculation and holding it. Soon afterward, you may insert your little friend back in and continue on your merry way.

Last-longer position 2: Face me, darling.

Another great position that’ll help most men last longer during sexual intercourse is the “sitting inside each other” position. You sit with your legs crossed and she sits atop you doing the same and controlling the tempo.
Sitting position - Credit: The Player's Guide
The great thing about this position is that you get to rub her back or pull her by the shoulders and suck on her breasts with ease. As well, she can bite into your neck or rub your back while you both enjoy a constant sexual pace. This position is quite an intimate position, and most women would find it enjoyable.

When you become accustomed to this situation and learn adequate penis control, then you can give her some new instructions and get her to squat up and down on your member while she puts her hands on your knees for balance.

Last-longer position 3: Ride ’em cowgirl, yeehaaa!

Some men does loose control when they’re in this position, considering they don’t have any power when the woman on top does all the maneuvering, many men find a woman’s back-and-forth thrusting rather than up and down very comfortable.
Riding position - Credit: The Player's Guide
Allowing her to take control of the situation can help you concentrate on keeping your orgasm at bay. As well, you get to watch your little cowgirl bounce around while she does her thing.

Once the thrusting thing becomes child’s play for you, you can try letting her squat. But be warned: The squatting position is likely to make you lose your mind and send you straight to seventh heaven and ejaculate a lot faster.

That’s because in this cowgirl position, the vagina tends to hug your penis rather tightly, and your genitals and hers are the only two body parts that are touching

Last-longer position 4: Spoon me, baby…

This position should be reserved for morning sex. With her back facing you, lift up one of her legs and insert yourself inside her warm fleshy area.
Spooning position - Credit: Player's Guide
Although the initial feeling may be that of tightness, if you brace yourself, the feeling will become more comforting. Many guys are able to control themselves and last longer in this position.

Dear men, keep in mind that it takes more than just sex positions to help you last longer. You need to keep a positive frame of mind. Don’t turn it into a self-fulfilling prophecy by continuously telling yourself that you can’t do it. You can, especially if you believe you can.

Turning foreplay into a game of lustful sexual containment can be more fun than the actual sex itself. Make your foreplay last. Practice makes perfect, men… understand the waterworks, and get into the game. And last but not least, ladies and gentlemen, I have a message for all of you:

Cleffairy: You know what I mean… safe sex, people.ร‚ย  here’s blowing all of you a kiss, and have a nice, sexy weekend.



  1. fatty oldman says:

    i thot commentor from stp blog r all decent or non sex post but im wrong…i thot aft u visited i cant post those crazy sex post as a doctor deleted my link few yrs ago as too

    no matter what position or how tight her vagina whenever a guy used strength wil blow faster…owes had mind other place when having sex as that wil keep a guy last longer…
    *thats y i prefer aft alcohol hv sex at least last more than 1hr* :O

    i normaly ask a girl riding horse on top so i dont used strength n wil last longer… ๐Ÿ˜€

  2. Cleffairy says:

    LMAO… uncle… u nonid to stop posting those sex craps on my account lah. (oiks, must go dig ur blog and see… wud nottie stuff u posted… *rubs hands*)

    LOL… you just start to drop by here oni… seriously, I’m telling you, I am not that innocent wan! I dono about other commenter in STP blogs decent anot, but most of them oso very naughty wan lerr… you dunno oni. (oii… dun kill me ah,ladies!)

    I’m 25, married, got a boy of 4 going on 5yo this year….ahahaha… innocent? Not so innocent! LMAO…I think even STP knows this lerr! I blog a lot nonsense wan, from sex to hentam-ing the gomen…just that lately toned down a lot… cuz in 2009, a lot of things happened to me. Make me no mood, so the entries become all depressing entries… not that sexy anymore. Ahahaha! You see those related post anot? All I write wan… ahahahaha!

    I wonder…really wan ahh? Use alcohol can make a guy last longer? *grinz* den I shud go make my husband mabuk mabuk!

  3. Merryn says:

    Yeah yeah yeah.. BLOW all you want! Today, when I makan, I’ll use hands instead of cutlery…:D don’t want to use the spooning that will lead to forking right smack in the middle of a restaurant! ๐Ÿ˜€

    You have a nice spooning weekend Cleffairy ๐Ÿ˜€ wink wink!

    • Cleffairy says:

      Waaaaaaa!!! Merryn, you ask me to BLOW wud ahhh? Whahahahahahahaha! Use hand to makan… dowan spooning… omg, u got me laughing lah, friend! *piangzzz*

      Erm… I’ll be sure to have a spooning, or rather, forking weekend, and you have a nice ‘hand’ weekend too. *pengsan-ed d*

  4. fatty oldman says:

    i thot got some commentor from stp came to my pathetic blog i had to post more decent…last time i comment he change it as he say his blog lotsa lil kids reading…i dont post naughty coz im not happy i just fuck n lotsa vulgar words…
    *r u virgo as it seem ur character?*

    wuahhh…20yrs gv birth liao…so good…im so old n fat stil havent ever got gf b4…nvm depressing o wat as its ur blog so u just post wat u wan n rant it out so wil feel beter…wait i got time i go read ๐Ÿ˜‰

    dont over mabuk as it end like me last week when i found a 1 nite stand girl n she gv me bjob i fell asleep halfway…LOL

    a lil mabuk can liao as it kept his mind out of sex thing n that make him last longer coz mind control ur body… ๐Ÿ˜‰

    • Cleffairy says:

      Uncle… you see up there *points up* Merryn is also STP’s regular commenter. LOL…and at times, she’s much more worst that me that it’ll make me speechless.

      Dono you know Claire of anot… she’s also STP’s regular visitor… and she taught me many funny sexy terms. Erection=morning glory is one of it. Cracked me up like mad! LOL… we’re not that innocent lerrr! Ahahahaha!

      Nonid to worry wan lah uncle… you post wudever you like lah. Ahahah…you have yet to see me swear. LOL…I use loads of F* words and stuff wan lerr… just I really tone down a lot during mid 2009. Too much things happened liao… ๐Ÿ˜›

      Yea…20 years old give birth liao. That alone shows that I’m not so innocent wan lah. Ahahah.. long story cut short… now got stuck with a hyper boy. Tensed up wan lerr, that’s why owez go STP’s blog. There can make me feel like a little girl again. He’s abit older than my dad nia.

      You’re not married ah? You sed no gf whatsoever. I tot you’re married liao, like STP. Nvm la… got no brat and no outlaws… nonid to so pening like me! Ahahahaha!

      Woiks! How do you know I’m a Virgo? You read my birthday entry ah? If you’re guessing, den you’re right. I am a Virgo. LOL…strange… I’m that obvious meh? ๐Ÿ˜›

      Yeah, yeah, abit mabuk enuff liao… if not… not only wun get it, but have to clean up the vomit oso. Eyerrrr!

      • Merryn says:

        OMG Cleffairy. Don’t lah point to me! I’m such an INNOCENT girl leh! My mind’s clean as a white tissue before the spooning and forking! lol… ๐Ÿ˜› I better go to bed now… hahahaha

  5. fatty oldman says:

    ohhh…that mean chheky post more reader…haha…

    i duno alot of his commentor as if i click all will be bz whole day reading n no nid work liao sumore i duno what they post as stp told me alot young ppl so i think wil wrote those kiddy thing…lol

    i sure post whatever i want as i dont mind wat ppl say coz like i post for my liking…hehe…ppl not like n they wont read liao…haha

    u married 20 that mean u r very innocent as most girls that age i knew they wil abort it…hyper boy good mar…

    he more grateful married alrdy but im not in luck even a gf…:)

    i dont read ur birth entry as ur last post say ur personality n that belong to virgo… ๐Ÿ˜‰

    ask ur husband eat more clam or oyster to enjoy more times at nite…vegetarian wil last longer oso as tadpole weak to swim… ๐Ÿ˜€

    • Cleffairy says:

      Cheeky post more readers? I dunno lerr, Uncle… cuz most of my visitors are regular ones, and i actually starts off as political blogger. I wrote about a lot of sensitive issues back in Pak Lah’s era. The man irked me like mad with his flip flop administration and his anak hantu!

      *Grinz* Marriage was… nothing for me.. it was just a piece of paper. I was a very stubborn person, I suppose. I do things my way, and i don’t let people tell me what to do, that’s why now I am a mum. Ahahahaha. i don’t need people’s permission to do anything. What I need is support, but even without support, i still can go on. It’s that simple for mer. Haiyorr… hyper is not good. He’s hyper in the sense that he have ADHD, not your regular child. Gives me headache, because not many understand why he behaves that way and couldn’t concentrate and stuff. ๐Ÿ™ Gives me so much problem til I’m almost suicidal!

      LOL… those are aphrodisiac lerr… omg! I feed my husband love potions quite often, I think, cheaper than oyster! LOL…

  6. Alpha Ace says:

    guess i don’t have such problem and usually my gf will fully satisfied…

    1) masturbate more …
    2) keep changing positions
    3) if feeling want to cum pull it out and play sucking nipples
    and dig the pussy…
    just my practical sharing.
    at least can play for 25 mins above lahhh
    sometime she just got so sore from me … too long!


  7. CHVoon says:


    cleffairy! thank you for your information!

    Do you know what is the site effect of this post?

    Maybe, you don’t know it!

    Tell you, after 9 months from today… there are more new born baby created!

    Congratulation to you as well! they can call you mummuy angkat hahahaha ๐Ÿ™‚ (just joke ok)

    but i cannot… i oversea! hehehe

    • Cleffairy says:

      OMG, Voon, you’re also nocturnal? It’s 4.06 here leh, and you just commented.

      Haiyorr… I did remind the people to use ‘condoments’ ma…. if got accident, i’m not responsible lerr! LMAOOOO!

  8. Gratitude says:

    Adoi Fairy, reading this on a sleepy Sunday morn……. my eyes nearly popped out! LOLZ

    I think I’ll revisit this post when I’m more ina homo erectus mood! lolz

  9. eugene says:

    Well, it is not about lasting longer as if there’s no tomorrow, having sex is about satisfying your partner, may be your partner loves longer foreplay and shorter penetration to hit the climax, or may be they fake orgasms far too often that gives the man the impression that she is satisfied already, so whose fault is it anyway?

    Sex is about exploring, understanding, loving, caressing, two naked intertwined.

    I always wonder, why cant we speak our minds about sex with our partner, when we can allow one taking whole of our body.

    Only my tots lah

  10. fatty oldman says:

    cheeky post attract more readers ler…most them like sex topic…lol

    thats xplain why u are virgoen…take easy on kids as u more to them they more rebel…

    oyster canned wan lar…lol

  11. Christopher says:

    I was away from reading any blogs during the weekend and was catching up tonight till I got tired of reading so many blogs and commented, I thought of choosing one last blog before heading for the bed and ….hell ya.. I saw your post. hehehe… It’s been a long long time since you post ‘interesting’ stuffs ..hahah…
    Any part 2? Your didi here wants to learn more !

    • Cleffairy says:

      Ahahahaha… frankly speaking, I was waiting for you to read this one. Ahahahaha… it’s been quite some time, isn’t it, since I post up something like this? Last year oredi lehhhh! Ahahahahaha! You’re my didi? Oyy, brader, I’m younger than you lah. LOL…

  12. Cleffairy says:

    suituapui :

    Oh dear! Problem! Problem! And whoรขโ‚ฌโ„ขs the one that caused it? *points finger at Cleffairy!

    Aiks? I’m innocent lerr, innocent, I tell you! I did remind them to use condiments. Ahahahahahaha! The condiments pecah, not my fault lerrr! Wakakakakaka!

  13. Cleffairy says:

    My poor darling Mama Claire has been blocked from commenting from her office. And she sent me this short email:

    hey, I guess I missed all the fun u all had in your previous post… KamasutraCleffy…. waaa.lauu eh… even the fatty old man or uncle Fatty also had fun there hor… hehehe… 60 over comments, my gosh, i guess u have to start posting all these topics, your blog will go PR10 in no time..hahhahaaa….Even merryn joined in the fun… hahhaa… she must give u a big ang pow when ethan gets a sibling… too bad i cannot comment there, i guess i have to make do in emails… shy to ask u to copy paste each time.. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Cleffairy says:

      LMAO…. Claire… all these people… all very ‘high’ wan. Ahahahaha….Oh? You know that uncle oso… nice guy, eh? He’s Cikgu’s friend… the one that give Cikgu chocolate recently. *drool drool* And dat Merryn ah? She’s very dahsyat wan lerr. She looks sweet and innocent, rite? But she’s very nottie wan leh, actually. Summore let her hubby read this entry summore. Ahahahaha…

      I used to write these sort of topic back in 2008… ahahah… Chris had the most fun here back then… but in 2009, too much things happened d, til I lazy wanna write lerr… no mood. LOL… This Clef have to see her mood wan. ๐Ÿ˜›

  14. manglish says:

    ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh how can i miss this entry?????????????? personally i prefer the me from a lot of work AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAH…

  15. donna says:

    i told manglish the existence of this post one.. AHAHAHA..
    oh no.. forgot about my innocent status..
    the koko and jie jie very hot ar? why they din wear any cloth one.. lolol..

    • Cleffairy says:

      *wahhhh piangzzzz* so that’s how manglish stumbled here… ahahah…. u ahhh!

      *golek golek* at your koko and jie jie statement. Ahahahahaha….you, innocent? Kenot believe! Ahahahaha!

    • Cleffairy says:

      Whahahahahahaha! Oh, god, Pete…. the things you come up with! Never failed to crack me up! LOLLLL you never change since last time lah! LOL…. rubber band! OMG! It’s really too bad Calvin is not here, eh? LOL… I wonder what he’ll say. ๐Ÿ˜›

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