Applying the law of attraction

There is a reason why I stopped associating with cynical, chauvinistic people who have serious inferiority complex issue, and surround myself only with people who emits positive energy and is supportive of me, regardless of what I do.

You see, there is one very important step that is often overlooked by most people who are working hard to apply the law of attraction. That step requires that you surround yourself with the sort of people who already have what you are trying to manifest in your life.

Have you ever heard stories or witness people who change dramatically because of the new crowd they were associating with? Perhaps you have noticed yourself developing certain habits after having the company of certain friends. We become like the people we surround ourselves with.

I knew a man who was working tirelessly to create financial freedom in his life. He worked diligently with the law of attraction in keeping his thoughts clear and positive as well as to maintain a deep focus on his goals. Each day he was able to see great success until one day he came in contact with some friend.

Within a few short weeks he realized that his newfound joy and personal power began to head south and he was feeling very discouraged and depressed about life. All his business ventures began to suffer and it seemed every thing around him was about to crash.

After taking sometime to reflect on what had suddenly gone wildly wrong with his life he realize the source of his failing business and personal life. His new friend, although a source of fun was a complete pessimist. Every single time they’re in touch, his friend complained excessively about everything and doubted everything which seemed to be good. He complained about the economy and he complained about politic, he complain about religion and just about everything he can complain about.

These conversations began to creep slowly into the mind of the first man and slowly his outlook became tainted by the dim view of reality that his friend was drilling into his head. Although he tried to maintain a brighter outlook, his own thoughts were in conflict with the thoughts that his friend was presenting to him.

With law of attraction you manifest what you speak about or focus on with great passion. Often times people do not realize how much time they give to listening to others whose outlook is quite dismal and just how much those dismal thoughts do influence your ability to successfully apply the law of attraction to your success.


Cleffairy:  Don’t surround yourselves with people who does nothing but push you down, ladies and gentlemen. Surround yourselves with people who will lift you higher emotionally and spiritually. It will make a huge difference in your life, and it will inspire you to move forward.


  1. Calvin Soo says:

    my thoughts,

    if the man is well versed and know what he was doing, and have a clear direction, i don’t think what others say or do will be able to sway him from his goal. i guess he wasn’t strong enough.

    but i do agree, mixing with the wrong crowd do tend to lead us away from our goals. they can be friends but there must be a limit. either that or refrain from mixing and that should do the trick 🙂

    • interracial dating london says:

      Well said, bro. I couldn’t have said it better myself. It is unfortunate that not everyone is strong enough to withstand those mental disturbance and negativities. More often than not, we find ourselves affected by the people around us.

      I, for one, find myself greatly annoyed and irritated whenever I mix with people who does nothing but try to bring the mood down… or people who is constantly cynical about everything in life. I don’t need these sort of people in MY life…they can be likened to a big rock being chained to my legs… they’re not doing anything but slow me down.

      I’m a very pro-active person, bro. I dun need this sort of people in my life. So when I spot these kind of people, I very much prefer not to associate with them. The less headache and less wasted energy on them.

      I just don’t understand why some people prefer to be associated with all of these negative energies and consequently, affecting both their personal life and professional life badly!

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